Participants at the Boys to Men Seminar in Windhoek say the initiative will help them understand discipline, responsibility, and how to become men, especially amid concerns over paternal absenteeism and lack of mentorship.

Speakers warned that many boys are growing up without male role models, leading to a loss of direction.

"And nowadays, as boys, we have to be very grateful for the parents that we have," said participant Lee Nguarambuka. "These single mothers – or mothers who have to live without a man to help them – take on the role of both mother and father to guide us boys through the life we need and deserve."

Verora Kanguatjivi, another participant, highlighted daily challenges: "We face substance abuse, bullying, and many more problems. I learned a lot from what they had to say today, and I'm very thankful for being here."

Jehova Ndisiro added that speakers motivated attendees "not to fight but to become a family from another mother".

"Just to encourage others – whatever struggles we all face, we need each other at the end of the day," said Undamuje Kavendjii. "We're here to help and encourage one another."

Police Inspector General Lieutenant General Joseph Shikongo questioned whether parents are adequately preparing their children, stressing that discipline starts at home. He donated N$2,000 to the seminar and called for stronger parental responsibility.

"Do we have a social life with our children at home? Do we talk to them? Do we tell them the responsibilities of a boy child or a girl child as parents?" Shikongo asked. "It all starts from home."

Edison Uapingene, founder of the Boys to Men initiative, said the seminar targets boys aged 14 to 25 to instil discipline, character, and accountability.

"Many are growing up without guidance, structure, or a strong example of what it means to be a man," Uapingene stated. "A boy without discipline becomes a man without direction. And a man without direction becomes a problem for himself, his family, and society."

Organisers stressed that empowering boys is not about competing with the girl child but about creating balance in society.